How do you strengthen your relationship with your family? There are many ways that you can do this, but the most productive, long-lasting way is to treat them as Christ would. Jesus would not stay angry or hold a grudge. He didn’t judge others by their clothes or cars.
Think of all the ways that your family has helped you in the past. Now, think about who you are today. Have you changed in a good way? Do you make an effort to strengthen your relationship with your family? We will take it step by step, so don’t worry if you are unsure.
In this article, you will learn more about how to grow closer to God by solidifying a bond with members of your family – even the difficult ones. Remember, it’s more about being humble and present than it is about sharing your accomplishments or latest news.
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Ways to Strengthen Your Relationship with Your Family
Learn new ways to strengthen your relationship with these interesting ideas. Often, we think that we wish, in the end, that we had spent more time with our family. We wanted to be tighter, to know them better, to have stronger relationships with each one. Try one of these.
#1 – Do Something Special.
You can grow closer to your family by doing things for them. Purchase something sweet for him or her, send something to them, like a plant or a bread basket, mail a nice “Thinking of You” card, write a long letter or an email, or even run an errand for or with the individual.
In the Bible, we are told to be kind-hearted. That means putting others first. Friends may come and go, but family usually has to stick around, because they are related to you, so treat them right. Treat them the way you wish they would treat you.
Be kind to one another, tenderhearted, forgiving one another, as God in Christ forgave you. – Ephesians 4:32
#2 – Make a Gift By Hand.
This idea is possibly one of the cheapest things to do if you hand-make whatever you plan to give him or her. For instance, if you knit for a living or even just during your free time, you could knit something for your special family member in order to grow closer to him or her.
Watch them tear up when you give a personalized item, something that they will love. This act of kindness can often benefit you the most! This is a very rewarding gift to give; it’s a treasure when you get this reaction from anyone! Try embroidered tablecloths for their next dinner.
A man who is kind benefits himself, but a cruel man hurts himself. – Proverbs 11:17
#3 – Do a Random Act of Kindness.
Have you ever thought something like, She would love it if you took her a dessert and a smile. Then, you realize that she would really appreciate it if you would actually do so. Maybe there is a random act of kindness you can do for an elderly member of your family.
Maybe try to do something kind each day. It will brighten your spirit and put a spring in your step! Often, when we do good for others, we benefit the most. It’s the “warm fuzzies” or goosebumps you feel when you are nice for no reason at all.
But love your enemies, and do good, and lend, expecting nothing in return, and your reward will be great, and you will be sons of the Most High, for He is kind to the ungrateful and the evil. – Luke 6:35
#4 – Get to Know One Another.
Make an effort to get to know them better; you’ll be grateful that you did because it will bring you memories that you can treasure forever.
Ask about their favorite color and why it’s their favorite, their preferred pet or animal, where they want to go as a vacation resort someday, their fondest memory, and so on. Tell them your story, too. A relationship is a two-way street.
An open conversation with patience practiced in the relationship can lead to a lasting bond.
Enjoy the time you spend together as you get to know each other better.
#5 – Spend Quality Time Together.
You might want to do something like taking your family member to the mall or a park to sit and chat. The importance of taking them to do something magnifies if they are shut-ins. They will consider it a real treat!
Sometimes, your relative just wants to spend time with you – a chance to see you smile and talk about your life or the memories that the two of you share together.
As you listen to your kin talk about their life, be sure to lean in and show cues that you really care about what they are saying. Ask questions to further engage in the topic at hand.
Go beyond the career talk or schoolwork. That might not be something they are interested in. However, if you are truly passionate about a class you are taking or a work project you are presenting, chat away! It’s great to share your heart with those you care about.
Cherish each moment you spend together!
#6 – Learn From Them.
You can add value to your relationship with this individual by learning from them. They might not have the same values that you do. It is possible you have different likes, dislikes, and preferences, but you can still learn something new every day.
If you make the effort, even if the two of you don’t have much in common, you can find something that will bring you together. Maybe you’ll realize that the two of you watch the same television show as if it were a religion. What about a shared favorite food or memory?
An intelligent heart acquires knowledge, and the ear of the wise seeks knowledge. – Proverbs 18:15
#7 – Teach Them Something New.
The final tip I will give you to strengthen your relationship with your family is to teach them something! It might sound crazy, but what better way to show your passion for something you know well than to teach about it?
Plus, when you teach someone something, they never forget who their instructor once was. Maybe go fly a kite, play chess, give a driving lesson, cook a special meal together, bake cookies, start a garden, teach them about something you do on the computer, or pray together.
Do you have a famous dish that you cook for others? Have them watch you make it so that you can learn from their tips as you cook it next to them. Consider using their tips and cooking tricks.
Another option is to just cook it yourself and take it over to them so that you can do something sweet. Anything that you do will be cherished. Growing stronger together can be as easy as a short text or phone call after that. Be creative!
The way of a fool is right in his own eyes, but a wise man listens to advice. – Proverbs 12:15
Additional Tips to Strengthen Your Relationship with Your Family
Here are some other great things you can do for your family. Check them out and try one!
- Have a surprise birthday party for him or her on a milestone birthday, inviting everyone!
- Take them on a special vacation – just the two of you!
- Send regular “Thinking of You” cards to them!
Examples of Things to Say to Your Family
Sometimes, the hardest thing to do is to talk to your family. Try saying something like these statements. Of course, edit them to make them personalized.
- Thank you for taking me to the park when I was younger.
- I love our heart-to-heart conversations.
- When I think of you, I feel comfort inside.
- I will cherish our memories for the rest of my life.
- Thank you for being you.
- I am blessed to have the green eyes that I got from you!
Ideas on What to Do for Your Family
Here are some other ideas on ways to strengthen your relationship with your family.
- Purchase flowers or chocolate-dipped strawberries.
- Take them for a spa day with manicures, pedicures, and massages.
- Make time for a simple telephone call.
- Ask about any prayers for medical issues they might be having.
- Give them a personalized item (a towel set with their initials on it).
- Spend a few hours playing games where they live.
- Mail a “thinking of you” card.
- Send an e-card online to their email
- Make something for them, like a sweater or a special dishcloth.
- Take them where they need to go (grocery store, pharmacy, or doctor’s office).
Reflection Questions on Your Relationship with Your Family
Here are some questions to think on as you work to strengthen your relationship with your family.
- How often do you do things for your loved ones?
- Why is it so hard to get along with those we are related to?
- Who is easiest in your family to get along with? Why?
- Who is hardest to get along with, and why?
- When will you take action to build a tighter bond with your family?
Conclusion
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Above all, keep loving one another earnestly, since love covers a multitude of sins. – 1 Peter 4:8
